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Wednesday, January 04, 2006

It was the 1st day of school. Most students dragged themselves to school. Every year there will be new members joining the school: the freshmen. I was on my way to the gents and haulted by a young chap: Neatly dressed with blouses tucked tightly into his pants showing his convex tummy, hair neatly parked to its side with a thick layer of shiny jel. On the 1st look: what a toot.

Sometimes your appearance can;t be blamed: not everyone in this world can have their looks highly appreciated. Confirm some will look different from one another, some will look less appealing, which is criticised "ugly".

Here;s another incident:

I was a freshman from my sec sch, on my way down the streets home. Very timid and shy at that time, i hardly made any friends easily. Along the way, i spotted one schoolmates, not too familiar, up ahead. With great courage and eagerness, i went up to say "hi". Instead of receiving a warm reply, she stared at me with a darting eyes, and said " you looked childish".

These are very unforgivable criticisms and unfriendliness. Certainly your life, you had encountered such incident at least once. You are being criticised just by looking at you is of course unfair.

The most unacceptable of course is "childish". I had wondered through my precious youth: what is childish? Then i realised many people see things at different perspective and angles. In fact, different people felt childish at different scenario: Some see lamer as childish, some see over playful people as childish. Thus childish simply means you had not reached to the perspective expectation only.

So don;t worry, don;t treat it as a psychological outbreak just beacuse someone says you are childish, but instead why not reply "issit?"

On the next post i shall discuss seomthing thats is frightening in everyone;s life. What can be more frightening than seeing your dreams consumed away helplessly???

Monday, January 02, 2006

Hmm, it;s the full stop to holiday already. In a blink of an eye, Holiday sure is over, for most of us. Of course there are some dudez out there still maximising their fun. Today marks the Season Finale of my Sec 4 career. Soon tml i;ll be entering the JC i desire, and today i;m going to talk about something that matters other Schoolers too.

Surely common sense tells u to put on a smile when going to school on the 1st day (unfortunately whether is it genuine or fake). Besides the curve that makes u look good, you should mind your attire that makes you look good too.

Let;s face it. People outseide are judging on your attire. Very very few ( even the % is scarily minute) really sees what inside the person, at least at a first glance. At times when you those thugs on the street, you;ll backed away, or either you saw a pretty sexy girl your eyes will confirm kept looked. These are the powers of your appearance. You may not be an ah beng but you had been judged by your attire; similarly, a pleasant looking lady may spilled more vulgarities and fiercier than you (who knows???). Still many will debate over what to wear to make you look bad, or simply beng. This is always a problem. When you wanna buy a low-cut skirt, your mum will criticise you " what are you trying to show?", and when i wanna buy long sleeved blouse with cool design over it, many will think why i so fond over ah beng 's attire? The solution is: know what to wear.

Certainly every shirt has their pride and rights o appear on town, otherwise why they are sold at the 1st place. You only needa know when to wear what . Bikini ure looks sexy, but it can;t appear on the streets, and tattered knee jeans sure looks cool but no rights to appear in a wedding ceremony! With such attitudes, hopefully you can tell yourself "hey tt guy looks cool!" instead of "what the ah beng?! " when in Orchard Rd.

Thus school re-opening soon, hopefully it;s time to keep your earrings and and stop being a blonde or brunette when you are not (for those who still don;t understand, it;s about your hair)!

With these tips, you are ready for school! But it;s just the beginning. Next post I;ll discuss how your looks can result being unknowingly criticised.